Life is the name of ups and downs. then how can your relationship remain untouched by it? Maybe everything is not going well there too, but why did you try to find out why this happens? You think that you are so loving and caring then why the relationship is not going well? What is it that you are missing? Sweetheart! Isn’t that personal space somewhere? Yes, personal space is also very important for any relation to run in the long race.
Many times your friend is not able to say anything to you about this when he feels imposed on himself by your views and likes. I am telling you those things from which you can understand that he needs personal space.
1. He Starts Bypassing Communication
Psychologists say that when boys need space and they do not get it, they start creating communication gaps and isolate themselves by suffocating. In such a situation, they get unnecessarily stressed. That is, the first sign is to leave your partner alone for some time.
2. He Seems to Be Unavailable Now
Maybe he has more workload or he wants to spend time with his friends and family. If you will always keep him busy in your work and will not give space, then what option does he have other than making excuses?
3. He often stops criticizing you
Actually, he is not able to take time for himself, so he is upset and you are the reason for this problem somewhere, so he has started criticizing you unnecessarily. But he could not even do this work openly. You should give him full me-time so that he can decide his dreams and preferences.
4. He no longer responds to your calls or messages as quickly
He feels that this time again you will leave the cricket match on the weekend and ask him to go to the shopping malls or else there will be an argument between you both about his schedule, expenses etc. To avoid this, he avoids your calls. So now stop making your own rules on everything and let it be like that.
5. Now he has also given up planning
Maybe because he remembers that the last time you both went to dinner, you were busy with WhatsApp with your friends the whole time or you were guiding him about his career. You may be right in your place, but if he doesn’t like this guidance, then leave it.
6. He is upset with you and happy with friends
Whatever happens between you two and if you always try to be an attention seeker instead of handling it normally then it can happen. Treat her like your bestie so that you both can understand each other better. There is no harm in seeking Attention, but if he needs a sensible partner at the moment, then he should be first.
7. He Finally Tells You
That he needs personal space. No one likes to live on the likes and dislikes of others everyday. If you do this then the romantic phase of your relationship will also disappear. So before he has to tell you this, give him all his space.